to satisfy the oversharer, and simultaneously veto the endless commentary, consider sharing something else---still personal but less invasive---that satisfies their urge to connect. when they really cross the line, say something that indicates your boundary is being crossed. "that's private" says everything.
additionally, a compliment also works wonders with an oversharer, because it refocuses the conversation in their direction while subtly resetting your boundary. for example, i could h**e given this wise response to my nosy family friend at the baby shower:" you made h**ing kids look so easy ! how did you do it ?"
i missed my chance that time. but next time, i'll be ready to face an oversharer---or the other challenging people it takes to make a world.
為了滿足過度分享者並阻止無休止的評論，請考慮談論其他事情---這是個人的---但不那麼咄咄逼人可以滿足他們交流的願望。 當他們越過底線時，說一些表明你的底線被突破的話。 一句話“這就是私隱！ “一切都完成了。
此外，對於過度分享者來說，讚美可以創造奇蹟，因為它們將談話的重點重新集中在他們身上，並巧妙地重置了你的界限。 例如，我本可以在嬰兒送禮會上對乙個愛管閒事的朋友多管閒事：“你讓生孩子看起來很容易！ 你是怎麼做到的？ ”
我錯過了機會。 但下一次，我將準備好面對乙個過度分享者---或其他尖酸刻薄的角色，他們是世界上乙個多元化的群體。
結構分析：
第一句話詞幹：
, consider sharing something .., consider sharing something ..
動詞不定式滿足 。and ..to) veto ..作為目標狀語;
決定性條款：
that satisfies their urge to connect.
修改某些東西;
第二句詞幹：
say something ..say something ..
時間狀語從句：
when they really cross the line, .
決定性條款：
that indicates ..that indicates ..
修改某些東西;
definite 子句包含物件子句：
(that) your boundary is being crossed.
作為符號的物件;
第四句，簡單的句子;
第五句詞幹：
a compliment also works wonders with an oversharer, .
原因狀語從句：
...because it refocuses the conversation ..
第六句，簡單句+直語;
簡單的句子採用虛擬語氣：could h**e given ..
第七句是簡單的句子;
第八句詞幹：
...i'll be ready to face an oversharer ..or other challenging people ..
決定性條款：
...who/that) it takes to make a world.
改變具有挑戰性的人;
詞彙表短語：
work wonder.神奇，神奇;
it takes to make a world.數以千計的事物構成了世界; 一種公尺，養百種人;
森林很大，有各種各樣的鳥;